I came up with the following list several years ago to remind me of practices that, while they may seem rather small and insignificant in and of themselves, if carried out over a course of a lifetime would lead to a life of integrity and success. Vincent Van Gogh said, "Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together."
Integrity is one of those attributes we don't hear much about. I'm not even going to try to define it, but we all know when we meet a person with integrity. The world is desperately in need of people with integrity not only to provide leadership, but to be role models.
So here are 10 habits that if practiced over time would lead to a life of integrity. Obviously, the list is not exhaustive and I'm sure you could come up with your own set of vital habits.
Set goals for yourself, even little ones, and then reach them.
This is being honest with yourself.
If you see something wrong, be a positive part of the solution.
This is creative problem solving
If you want something to happen, make it happen.
This is being proactive
Cultivate a genuine interest in others.
This is being other-centered.
Go the extra mile instead of getting by with the littlest amount of time, energy and resources.
This is excellence
Be generous and give freely.
This is love
Always thank others if they have given to you in any way, no matter how small.
This is gratitude.
Affirm others as you see them stepping out in new areas and taking on new challenges.
This is encouragement that empowers.
Plan and organize yourself to keep scheduled appointments and commitments.
This is being reliable.
Be on time.
This is recognizing that the small stuff matters.
"A life lived with integrity, even if it lacks the trappings of fame and fortune, is a shining star in whose light others may follow in the years to come." (Denis Waitley, author and speaker)